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Tulips On The Table
I am
learning to appreciate the slow arrival of Spring here in the
Mid-Atlantic. During my many years in Tennessee, I grew used
to seeing the daffodils pop up in early March and then a quick
succession of all the spring flowers. Here the arrival doesn't
even start until mid-April and due to cool spells, most things
don't burst into bloom until the middle of
May. A friend brought a bouquet of lilacs
last weekend and my entire house smelled heavenly for most of the
week. Then I bought some tulips for a dinner party this week.
It's amazing how such small things can bring us so much
joy. Each time I walked past the table, those bright, happy
tulips bring a smile to my face. The sun and warm breezes
can't be far behind.
Spring is the season of new
awakenings, fresh growth and re-creation. Take an hour
sometime soon to walk through a park or garden and breathe in
the newness. While you are there, promise to do one thing
to move your life in a new direction. And then, just.....
do...... it.......
And try
putting some pretty blooms on your table
to celebrate !
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News and Announcements
Welcome to my New Subscribers! I have been
experiencing some cyber problems with my newsletter provider and had
just about made a decision to discontinue sending it out every
month. But once we got the problems solved, and I was able to
log back on, I found that about a dozen new names have been
added to the list since the first of April. I
hope you will find some inspiration here.
The big news
for this issue is about the summer. I am going to leave
home in a couple of weeks to travel to Lake Chautauqua in western NY
state to spend the summer at my family's cottage there
with my 91 yr old father. I have purchased a digital
recorder and we are going to create an oral family history
of sorts. I feel very fortunate to be able to enjoy
precious time with my most favorite person in our most favorite
place!
I'm also going to use this 10 weeks
to focus on some new products for all of you and to
develop an idea for a book. Look for
teleclasses to be offered in the fall along with an e-book that
will help you sort it all out.
I will be
writing more about these projects on my blog, so check in there to
see what's in the works.
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Book Review
Do you wonder what it would be like to
own a coffee shop... .. train horses.......be a park ranger in
the Everglades.......decorate cakes in a bakery......work as an
interior designer ......be a
brewmaster? Before you leap off a cliff to a
new job, it might be smart to experiment with your
idea. Brian Kurth, the founder of "Vocation
Vacations", has a new book out call Test-Drive Your Dream
Job that is packed full of
great ways to try on a different job to see how it
fits.
His own dream job - "Vocation Vacations" -
is my favorite recommendation for a way to try something out.
They have a lengthy list of places and people who will let you
experience your heart's desire for a short period of time.
Check it out at their web-site - www.vocationvacations.com
The book provides a roadmap of steps to follow
to figure out what it is that you would like to try and then how to
find someone to help you do it. His opening chapter
presents a down-to-earth explanation of the various fears that
we all experience as we contemplate making changes to our
lives, and sensible ways to move past them.
Then
he explains the processes for finding a mentor, designing a trial
experience, and actually making a move to a whole new
vocation. His advice is heartfelt and real - his own
experience and success is a tribute to the
process.
If you are thinking
that you can't possibly quit your job, think again. You owe it
to yourself to find the work that "matches your values, that feeds
instead of exhausts you, that doesn't require you to leave your
priorities at home and check your heart at the door." (p. 6)
Order a copy
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Notes and Tips from My Journal
I've been
helping a friend create a new home study/office and that process has
reminded me of how important it is that we have someplace, any
place, that is our own private, quiet sanctuary.
I
remember that when my children were small, the only place I could
find peace and quiet was the master bathroom ! It required someone
else to watch them for a while so I could lock the door, light a
candle or two, fill the tub with bubbles and just soak away the
tension.
My friend is an artist as well as a
busy volunteer for several organizations and an archivist of family
records and photographs. Her room needed to be well organized
to deal with a lot of different types of files and supplies and also
needed workspace for small projects. We emptied the room
completely, installed lots of cabinets for storage, a large L-shaped
desk and a work area. She called today to say that she was
slowly moving things back into the room, but was also finding a lot
of "stuff" she didn't need to put back in
there. "It's so calm and serene, I want to keep it
that way."
If you can take just one
morning or afternoon to clear out a space where you
can quietly think or read or write, it will allow you to
plan the changes you want to make in your life much more
easily.
We all need a quiet place to
contemplate our navels on a regular basis! My
favorite place away from home is a local arboretum full of
lovely blooming native plants, a picturesque pond with comfortable
benches nearby, and only the music of birds singing - no Ipods
for me. At home it is my small office with piano jazz playing
on my Pandora.com radio station. (Try Jim Brickman for some
great soothing sounds.)
Your quiet place may just be a
cozy chair in a corner or a swing on the porch. It doesn't
matter as long as you take time to just be there once in a
while. Even better - take a notebook and pen with you
and write for 10 minutes about what's on your mind today. You
will be amazed at how much clearer your thoughts will become if you
give them space to exist!
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A Quote to Ponder
Too often we follow a path that is not really our own, one
that others have set for us. We forget, that whichever way we
go, the price is the same: in both cases we will pass through both
difficult and happy moments. But when we are living our dream,
the difficulties we encounter make sense. ~Paulo
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Share Your Story Are you single -
divorced, widowed, never married? I'm researching for a book
on how single women make (or don't make) decisions and I'd like to
hear your real life stories.
Did you make a really
stupid decision to do something? Did you make a
bad decision about money that turned out good after
all? Have you put off making a decision to move because you
just can't decide to do it? Did you finally decide
to do something wonderful?
Write me a letter and tell me the circumstances,
your thinking at the time, and what you did or didn't
do. Funny, sad, pathetic or brilliant - here's your
chance to fess up or
brag!
These don't have to be
creative writing exercises. Nothing will be reprinted without
your permission - I'll follow up on any that seem applicable.
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Jane Kirsch PO
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