From: Jane Kirsch [jane@lifeandworkbydesign.com]
Sent: Wednesday, May 02, 2007 3:35 PM
To: jane_kirsch@comcast.net
Subject: [Newsletter] WORKIN' MY WAY May, 2007
Finally Spring
May, 2007


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Book Review

Many of the people I talk with about making life changes say that they just have no idea how to figure out what it is they want to do - they just know that they want to (or have to) change.  It is certainly not uncommon in our hectic society to be too overwhelmed with daily life to stop and listen to our hearts desires.  But for those who truly want to design their life differently, taking the time to discover the things that are important to them is a critical first step toward change.  One of my favorite authors to help anyone with this process is Barbara Sher.  She has been writing wonderful self-discovery books for many years and I highly recommend any one of them.   An example is the one entitled, I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was. 

She deals with all the different reasons why we resist making changes or following our dreams.  In the chapter about a need for "safety" there is a line that says, "You're hugging the shore, but you can't take your eyes off the horizon."  Many of us decided for some reason a long time ago that taking risks or seeking adventures was not a good idea.  Barbara skillfully leads the reader through some personal analysis of where this need comes from and how to overcome it.  Other chapter titles include, "Nothing Ever Interests Me", and "Regrouping: It's a Whole New Ball Game".     The book is sprinkled with self-directing exercises and thought-provoking challenges.   If you have ever thought that you would like to be something other than you are, this book will help guide you toward new goals. 



Barbara Sher Website


Notes From My Journal

Make Your Life A Work of Art!

I have a long list of artistic skills that I want to work on some day but even though I haven't found the time to learn them, I enjoy seeing other artists' creations.  Hand-woven fabrics are one of my absolute favorites and I had an opportunity this past weekend to sit and watch a woman dressed in Revolutionary garb weave a table runner on a floor loom at a local festival.
As I watched, it occurred to me that our lives are much like her weaving.  Woven cloth is made up of two elements – the warp and the weft.  The warp is a series of long threads, yarns or strings that are affixed to the loom and run continuously through the length of the cloth and are generally all the same.  The weft are other fibers, which may be absolutely anything, that are woven in between the warp threads in a variety of patterns.  Often the weft is a different color, a different thickness or a variety of different fibers, strings or yarns.  In weaving projects that are created as art for hanging, other elements such as feathers, buttons, sticks, ribbons or wires may be used. 

So it suddenly occurred to me that I have been changing the texture of the weaving that is my life in the last few years.  The warp threads that hold me together are my family members and long-time friends, my spirituality, my ethics and moral code, my love of learning, my eternal optimism, my independence and even my stubbornness.  These have always been a part of my life.   But, I have been adding a lot of new weft yarns in recent years.

First I made a couple of holes with some hard but important personal decisions, but they are hardly noticeable now. Then I changed the background color by moving to a new locale and home; I've added lots of interesting buttons and beads in the form of new acquaintances and friends; there was a short strand of color for a JOB that turned out to be all wrong for me, but that has been replaced by rows of thick, lush brightly colored yarn that represent a new direction for my life's work. There are a few feathers for travel and adventure opportunities, and a scattering of sequins for a whole new set of goals and dreams.   Suddenly, the fabric of my life is colorful and interesting again! 

How about you – has the fabric of your life become a monotonous pattern in pale colors?  Think about hanging it up on the wall – is it a work of art to show off? 

There are so many ways to add interest to your weaving.  Join a new hobby group; take a class; explore a neighboring city; spend two hours in the library just browsing whatever catches your eye; take the time to set some new goals; make a decision to change something that is toxic for you. 

Create a vibrant new pattern – you can do that……and you never know what you might discover about yourself in the meantime.


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And just for inspiration.....

   Many of us are aware that a greater life is possible. We sense that we have scarcely realized our potential, our powers, and that there lies vast continents, strange and wonderful worlds of unexplored territory within.   Michael Lynberg


 


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